When both parents live together, they share 14 Basiselterngeld months, with one parent limited to 12 unless the other takes at least 2.
For single parents, this restriction doesn't apply. You can take all 14 months yourself, with no minimum required from anyone else.
You're considered a single parent (Alleinerziehend) for Elterngeld purposes if:
Important: You can have a new partner and still be 'single' for Elterngeld if your child's other biological/legal parent doesn't live with you. The definition is about the child's other parent, not your relationship status.
Here's something many single parents don't know: You're eligible for the Partnerschaftsbonus even without a partner!
For coupled parents, both need to work 24-32 hours. For single parents, only your hours count. If you work between 24-32 hours per week for 2-4 consecutive months, you get the bonus months.
To claim single-parent status, you'll need to provide:
The Elterngeldstelle may ask follow-up questions, especially if the parents were previously together.
Yes, for children born at least 6 weeks before the due date, there are additional Basiselterngeld months: 6 weeks early = 1 extra month, 8 weeks = 2 extra, 12 weeks = 3 extra, 16 weeks = 4 extra months. Additionally, both parents can receive Basiselterngeld simultaneously longer with premature babies.
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