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Elterngeld for Single Parents: All 14 Months Are Yours

Elterngeld Helper·Updated January 2025

Key takeaways

  • Single parents (Alleinerziehende) get all 14 Basiselterngeld months themselves
  • You can also claim the Partnerschaftsbonus (just need to meet the hour requirement)
  • Definition of 'single parent' is specific – living apart from other parent

Next steps

All 14 months are yours

When both parents live together, they share 14 Basiselterngeld months, with one parent limited to 12 unless the other takes at least 2.

For single parents, this restriction doesn't apply. You can take all 14 months yourself, with no minimum required from anyone else.

Who counts as a 'single parent'?

You're considered a single parent (Alleinerziehend) for Elterngeld purposes if:

  • You don't live with the other parent in the same household, AND
  • You have sole or primary custody

Important: You can have a new partner and still be 'single' for Elterngeld if your child's other biological/legal parent doesn't live with you. The definition is about the child's other parent, not your relationship status.

You can get Partnerschaftsbonus too

Here's something many single parents don't know: You're eligible for the Partnerschaftsbonus even without a partner!

For coupled parents, both need to work 24-32 hours. For single parents, only your hours count. If you work between 24-32 hours per week for 2-4 consecutive months, you get the bonus months.

What you need to prove

To claim single-parent status, you'll need to provide:

  • Meldebescheinigung showing you live alone with your child
  • Declaration that the other parent doesn't live in your household
  • Custody documentation if relevant

The Elterngeldstelle may ask follow-up questions, especially if the parents were previously together.

Frequently asked questions

Is there more Elterngeld for premature births?

Yes, for children born at least 6 weeks before the due date, there are additional Basiselterngeld months: 6 weeks early = 1 extra month, 8 weeks = 2 extra, 12 weeks = 3 extra, 16 weeks = 4 extra months. Additionally, both parents can receive Basiselterngeld simultaneously longer with premature babies.

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