Together, both parents have 14 Basiselterngeld months to share. This is your 'budget'. How you divide it is up to you, with a few rules:
The 'traditional' split (12+2): Mom takes 12 months, dad takes 2 months. This unlocks all 14 months while one parent takes most of the leave.
The 'equal' split (7+7): Both parents take 7 months each. Often done consecutively (mom first, then dad).
The 'overlap' approach: Both parents take leave at the same time for some period. Great for the early weeks when you both want to be home.
Remember: ElterngeldPlus months count as half toward your 14-month budget. This gives you more flexibility:
1 month Basiselterngeld = 2 months ElterngeldPlus
Wait, that's more than 14? Yes – because Plus stretches the same 'budget' over more time.
Both parents can receive Elterngeld during the same months. This is common:
Just remember: Simultaneous months still count from your budget. 1 month where both parents take Basiselterngeld = 2 months of your 14-month budget used.
Elterngeld is paid according to the child's life months, not calendar months. A life month starts on the child's birthday. Example: Child born March 15 → 1st life month: March 15 to April 14, 2nd life month: April 15 to May 14, etc. Important: Your Elternzeit should also be planned according to life months!
Yes, definitely! Important: Plan your Elternzeit according to the child's life months, not calendar months. If your Elternzeit ends mid-life-month, you'll have income from working days in that month offset against your Elterngeld. Align the periods precisely!
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