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How to Split Elterngeld Months Between Parents

Elterngeld Helper·Updated January 2025

Key takeaways

  • Both parents can take Elterngeld – you have 14 Basiselterngeld months to share
  • Common split: 12 months mom + 2 months dad, but any combination works
  • You can take months at the same time or consecutively

Next steps

Your month 'budget'

Together, both parents have 14 Basiselterngeld months to share. This is your 'budget'. How you divide it is up to you, with a few rules:

  • One parent alone can take maximum 12 months
  • To unlock months 13 + 14, the other parent must take at least 2 months
  • Minimum if claiming: 2 months per parent

Common ways to split

The 'traditional' split (12+2): Mom takes 12 months, dad takes 2 months. This unlocks all 14 months while one parent takes most of the leave.

The 'equal' split (7+7): Both parents take 7 months each. Often done consecutively (mom first, then dad).

The 'overlap' approach: Both parents take leave at the same time for some period. Great for the early weeks when you both want to be home.

More flexibility with ElterngeldPlus

Remember: ElterngeldPlus months count as half toward your 14-month budget. This gives you more flexibility:

1 month Basiselterngeld = 2 months ElterngeldPlus

  • So you could do something like:
  • Mom: 6 months Basiselterngeld + 16 months ElterngeldPlus (= 6 + 8 = 14 months worth)
  • Dad: 2 months Basiselterngeld + 4 months ElterngeldPlus (= 2 + 2 = 4 months worth)

Wait, that's more than 14? Yes – because Plus stretches the same 'budget' over more time.

Taking months at the same time

Both parents can receive Elterngeld during the same months. This is common:

  • Right after birth (both parents home together)
  • During Partnerschaftsbonus (required to overlap)
  • Any time you both want/need to be home

Just remember: Simultaneous months still count from your budget. 1 month where both parents take Basiselterngeld = 2 months of your 14-month budget used.

Frequently asked questions

What are life months (Lebensmonate)?

Elterngeld is paid according to the child's life months, not calendar months. A life month starts on the child's birthday. Example: Child born March 15 → 1st life month: March 15 to April 14, 2nd life month: April 15 to May 14, etc. Important: Your Elternzeit should also be planned according to life months!

Should I plan Elternzeit and Elterngeld together?

Yes, definitely! Important: Plan your Elternzeit according to the child's life months, not calendar months. If your Elternzeit ends mid-life-month, you'll have income from working days in that month offset against your Elterngeld. Align the periods precisely!

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